At the moment, I’m providing a lovely Family Engagement project at two local primary schools in Cardiff. The aim of the project is to encourage parents and children to come together after school, and have an opportunity to play and be creative together.
We’ve a had a few weeks together now and, as I get to know the group, I always like the idea of introducing a fire-building activity. It’s a great way of teaching the children about fire safety and the correct way of working with fire. It also shows the parents that a little bit of risk is a good thing and, actually, children are really good at recognizing and managing risk during play.
My fire-building activity is run over two sessions, the first being an introduction to fire. We talk about risks, how to use fire and be around fire safely. We look at the equipment and talk about how we use it, and this gives me an idea on how the children react around the subject. It’s good for me to know that I can trust the group; if I am in any doubt about safety issues, I’ll leave the actual fire building session to a later date or, with some groups, perhaps fires may not the best or safest activity for them.
So, sitting in the classroom, we spoke about using a flint and steel to get the fire going. I demonstrate the process and, at the start, you do see the fear in some children’s eyes, as they’ve been told to never play with fire because it’s dangerous. Of course, it is when used in the wrong way, but with correct teaching comes respect, and it stops becoming the scary forbidden thing that children are often warned about.
We then move outside to the open playground. Here, the children make a little table of sticks and a ball of cotton wool is placed on top. The children then get to have a go at lighting the cotton wool in a safe and controlled environment. We always have a bowl of water at the side, (just in case), and the children take it in turns to strike the spark, so that they learn to wait and to observe the rules of our fire session.
Luckily, I’ve never had any child go out of control, or act dangerously with this activity. They really understand how to behave around the fire, and always use the equipment correctly. It’s lovely to watch and to be a part of this discovery process.
I believe that, sadly, in the society that we currently live in, we can wrap our children up in cotton wool in an attempt to shield them from too many potential hazards and risks. Many of these things were simply play experiences to me and my peers and, as children we were allowed to explore, discover and evaluate the safest way to avoid risks in play.
The current trend seems to almost promote “safe, indoor, computerised” activities, by telling children not to climb the tree in case you fall and break your leg, don’t play outside when its rainy because you’ll get a cold, and don’t jump in the puddle as you’ll ruin your shoes. As parents, I think we’ve all said these things to our children at some time or another, but didn’t we do all of these things when we were kids, and didn’t love it.
I think that a little bit of risky play works well in a safe environment and the children know that if they act responsibly, behave well and enjoy the session, the following week they get to enjoy a huge mug of hot chocolate and toast marshmallows on the fire that they helped to make!
I’m so lucky that my daughter gets to come with me on my Forest Schools sessions.
It’s the perfect place for her to be.
Here she is enjoying a toasted marshmallow squashed between two chocolate biscuits.
What else would you do when you have a lovely open outdoor camp fire!
This is the newest addition to our family, and this tiny little ball of fur has turned our lives upside down.
He really is like having a baby all over again (in many ways), but the happiness he’s brought into our lives is totally worth it.
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ParkDean Holidays have been running a lovely competition about the “Best Old Holiday Photo”.
This is aimed at encouraging people to share their childhood photographs of nostaligic holiday memories. The competition was created due to the number of people staying home and having holidays in Britain. It really got me thinking that, as a family, we’ve had the most wonderful holidays exploring different parts of Britain, and I think it’s fantastic that more people are choosing to stay home for their holidays.
More information, and also if you are keen to share your own family photographs, can be found at this link: http://www.parkdeanholidays.co.uk/take-me-back/
This post has given me lots of fun, thinking about past holidays which I had as a child. But, for me, the one that stands out the most was a family holiday to the Isle of White. It was a similar set-up to Butlins, where there were chalets and all of the entertainment was on site, which was great for a big family group.
When I say a family big holiday, this included mums, dads, cousins of all ages, aunties, uncles and, of course, the matriarcal Nan, and we all went together. I think that I was only about seven at the time and, looking back, it’s only certain pivotal events that I can vividly remember.
We travelled by train and all the children piled into one carriage. This left the adults to a small respite of momentary peace and quiet, free from all the excited, screaming children, (high on sweets and anticipation), all eager to get arrive at our destination.
My other fond memory is of having the biggest pool I’ve ever seen, with free access on the site. My Dad would take us down to the pool every day. He was a big kid, himself. He would throw all of us children across the pool, like skimming a stone, then have the whistle blown at him by the lifeguard telling him to behave.
However, it’s been really difficult to find any photographs from that holiday. Of course, we didn’t have digital cameras back then, with a back-up to our computer and everything saved quickly and with ease.
We definately didn’t have that ease back in the day. But one of my cousins did manage to dig out the most lovely picture of that holiday. Sadly, it’s not showing all of us who were on holiday together, but I can vividly remember the afternoon that we were all instructed to have family photographs taken.
We were all posed within a nearby field, and ordered to “move places”, “look at the camera” and “smile” by the professional photographer on site. The children were so bored, and it was a real mission for the parents to get us smiling and looking happy! It felt like we were all there for ages, but this particular photo is so lovely, and so and important.
Sadly, my Nan has now passed away and so, seeing her here with her grandchildren all smiling and laughing, is just a perfect memory of a great holiday. The whole thing reminded me of what a wonderful woman she was.
She curled my sisters’ and my hair with old rags, one evening. Then she said she was going to the shop for milk. When we started to get worried that she was gone for hours, we eventually tracked her down to the amusement arcade, pumping coins into the machines. Taking no nonsense from one of my cousins, she chased him back to his room, were he spent the rest of the night in shame!
I never thought I’d see my Nan run, ever!
I know that it’s not in focus, or as crisp as a current digital image, but it’s so touching how such lovely memories can come from just one photograph.
It’s been lovely composing this post and thinking back to our happy family holiday, compared to my own current familys’ holidays.
We, as a new family, have spent the most amazing times holidaying in this country by camping in some beautiful areas and discovering which holiday locations suit our own little family.
A quick confession is that our passports have recently expired. We’re in no rush to renew them, with so much of our own fantastic country to explore that we’ve never seen before.
I hope that this post inspires people to think about having a holiday in this country.
I know that you can all create those extra-special, “once-in-a-life-time” family memories that you’ll cherish forever.
With the wind howling and rain pouring outside today, it seems like such a long time ago that we were at Coombe Mill. I’m finally getting around to sorting out the wonderful photographs which we took during our Coombe Mill holiday.
Looking at this photograph has made me forget the grey weather outside, and made me fondly remember our day of wild swimming on the river near our cottage. My daughter simply slipped into her wetsuit, jumped in and had one of the best afternoons ever!
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My Duke of Edinburgh expeditions have come to an end for this year, and this picture was taken during my last expedition.
We were staying in the Fishguard area and I was on driving duties very early, (so early that I had to dress by headtorch light, as it was so dark!).
Fortunately, I was able to stop for a few minutes and enjoy this beautiful area.
If I wasn’t heading to meet a group of young people, I really could have stayed here all morning.
It’s great to discover a little bit of hidden beauty every now and then.
As we all know, days out can be a very expensive for families trying to entertain the children, so it’s wonderful when a family are able to have a day out that only costs the price of a picnic and an ice cream!
Amelia Trust Farm is a working farm in the Vale of Glamorgan, where children can explore and discover the countryside, and also experience what a working farm is all about. A very special part of Amelia Trust is that it provides an environment where disadvantaged young people can work with skilled staff and volunteers on the farm in an outdoor education setting.
We were very lucky to visit on a lovely sunny day and, as soon as we arrived, the children were immediately off to the play area. The great layout of the play area means that we could find a picnic bench, sit down and unload the bags, while watching the children’s safety as they climbed over the tractor and slid down the slide.
It was soon time for lunch, and it was lovely to enjoy your own picnic food in a wide open space, sitting in the sunshine.
With full tummies, we wandered off to spot the farm animals as we went along and all the children loved the freedom to run ahead of us, leading the way. The piglet trail is always a firm favourite, as it leads to the wooded area. My nephews enjoyed hiding behind trees, waiting to jump out at us. Their screams of ‘BOO’ could be heard a long way away!
The next walk was to the pond, at the furthest point of the farm. It’s a good track for pushchairs for little ones, and not too far or up-hill. Just before the pond is my daughter’s favourite bit, which is a little obstacle course made from simple wooden planks, but they played on it for ages. Balance beams, a wobbly plank and stepping stones make for a fun challenge, that they just wanted to go on again and again. It’s a very simple, but effective, outdoor adventure course.
The children eventually arrived at the pond, and loved sitting watching the ducks. They made quacking noises, and then tried jumping back and forth over a little stream feeding into the pond. Inevitably, it ended with her falling in, and getting covered with mud. I always use old trainers for these types of walks, and the poor old washing machine always gets a work-out after these muddy adventures!
We headed back, as time was coming to an end and we had promised the children an ice cream in the on-site cafe. For a great day out in Cardiff, Amelia Trust Farm is such a great place to visit for an inexpensive, educational day out.
All in all, a brilliant day out that doesn’t break the bank!
Recently, we were very lucky to enjoy a multi-activity day at Cardiff International White Water Centre. My daughter and three friends spent the day taking part in three very different adventurous experiences that are available within a vast programme of various activities offered by the centre.
Cardiff International White Water Centre offers a wide range of outdoor activities for children and adults, ranging from Flat-water Paddling, Outdoor Climbing, Stand-up Paddle Boarding, White-water Rafting and Gorge Walking to name a few. Our little adventurers had the most amazing day, taking part in Indoor Surfing, High-ropes Air Trail, and then White-water Rafting.
Their first activity was on the Indoor Surfing, which is a very powerful, simulated surf machine. What’s great about this activity, is that it’s suitable for beginner skill levels, and upwards. So, for children, it’s a great way of getting a first experience of that wild, surf-spray feeling, in a totally safe, controlled environment! Also, it can be enjoyed any time of year, as it’s indoors.
Priced starting from £22.50 per person, up to £35 per person, this is for a session of about 1hr 30min, with all equipment and coaching provided.
They were all so excited! They couldn’t wait to get their wet-suits on and jump right onto the waves. Each child is coached, to help with getting in, and staying on, the wave. As they jumped in their faces were beaming, and they fought against the wave to practice going forward, backwards and side to side.
As the session went on, they were encouraged to try some tricks, by pushing the boards forwards and catching it. They learnt turns and spins and also kneeling on the board. They gained in confidence, waving to parents, who were happy watching all the fun. They also had a go at launching themselves from the top of the wave, occasionally getting some air as they jumped into the flow.
With plenty of turns between the group, everyone had lots of time on the wave, getting better and better with each go, all being able to try more tricks, coming of the wave with big smiles and asking when they could go again.
Next was the Air-trail High Ropes Course. Set above, over and across the Centre, the trail crosses the water. The challenge is to complete high-air obstacles and zip-wires, in order to move across the course to the end, all-the-while dangling high in the air, suspended by a safety line. Before the session each participant is kitted with a harness and a helmet to keep you safe. One by one, the group are encouraged to move across the course at their pace.
The cost for this activity is £10 per person, which includes one fully coached circuit of the Air-trail course.
We all watched, wondering if they would be brave enough to move from the first step. It didn’t take them long to take that first BRAVE step off on the first zip wire. What was lovely, was that we were able to walk around the course at ground level, following them around with words of supporting encouragement, as they went past each obstacle.
We had a few wobbles and high-pitched screams, but we also had lots of laughter and giggles as they moved along. We all watched as they got to the end and zipped wired down to cheers from the mums!
This activity is a great confidence-builder, at only £10 per person including coach, and you can move through this activity leisurely, at the participants’ own speed.
After a bit of lunch, our group moved over to the White-water Rafting session. They were so looking forward to this, as they’d watched other rafts going around the course throughout the day, and so their anticipation and building excitement of White-water Rafting had been building throughout the day.
After suiting-up with wetsuits and safety kit, they first had to practise various skills and techniques in the flat pool. This where they learned the safety commands, and what to do while in the fast-flowing water. It was the best to get ready for what to except on a REALLY fast-water course.
Parents are able to walk around the course, and watch each stage, especially as they came up the conveyor belt which took them to the beginning of the course. There were lots of smiles, screaming and nervous giggling!
Throughout the first run-through, all we could hear was the happy screams as they hit waves, moving on rapidly around the course. It was lovely, as we could watch every move as they went around. We were able to take photographs and shout encouragement but, mostly, we could see how much fun they were having.
During different times of the week, the water level is raised or lowered, depending on the style of paddling required.
We went it was a “family rafting” session, and so the level of water was lower. This helps when younger children want to take part. If you’d like a harder, (read “SCARIER”) paddle, then you could choose to arrange your visit when the level of water is higher. This offers something for everyone and, for our children, the water level was great. They had some edgy nerves to begin with, but were put so at ease by the coaches that they were soon keen to raft!
It really is a great way of getting inexperienced people onto fast-flowing water, and to develop confidence, while still having lots of fun.
The price for a family raft experience starts at (between) £22.50 to £25 per person, and is available on Wednesday evenings, Sundays mornings and School Holidays. All coaching and specialist equipment is included and each session runs for approximately 2 hours.
Our little group had lots of time around the course, and we were really surprised at how much they were able to fit into the session. At the end, in the flat-calm pool, the children were all encouraged to finish the session by jumping into the water from the raft. This was an amazing, confidence-building end to a brilliant session.
They all rushed up to meet us, and were so excited, full of energy and with faces glowing with the biggest smiles. It was so amazing and heart-warming to see. They really did have the most amazing day and couldn’t choose what session was the best. I think that they all agreed that each one was equally as fantastic or exciting as the next, but for lots of different reasons!
Friends have suggested that it could become quite expensive but, what’s great about this easily accessible centre, is that it offers such a huge variety of activities with a vast range of prices, from as low as £10 per session.
This multi-activity centre really can cater for every age and skill-level, as well as corporate groups, stags or hens, and group party-treats or special occasions. It’s a wonderful addition to the “Cardiff experience”, as well as offering an accessible and controlled experience into wild-water activities.
For our group, it was a very positive day. Not just because of the excitement and fun of the activities, but that it was so wonderful to see all the children’s’ confidence grow throughout the day. I would also like to thank each coach on the activities, as they really did make our children’s day so enjoyable and fun!
For all the details and full list of courses, activities, sessions, prices etc, please visit: http://www.ciww.com/
We recently had a chance to learn about our wonderful and interesting Welsh mining history at Big Pit National Coal Museum.
It’s an amazing place, where you get to dress up like a miner or, (as our miner-guide called our group), ‘Mini Miners!’ and then go underground and explore the coal mines.
It’s a really brilliant place to learn about our history, and entry with the underground tour is completely free.
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This was the first photograph that I shared on my blog in November 2013.
Below is a photograph that I took recently, and wanted to share with you for this week’s Sunday Photo. The very muddy and very wet shoes might have changed over the years, but she still enjoys splashing around in streams and jumping in mud. For me, it shows that my daughter still has her adventurous and wild outlook on life, and that makes me so happy.
(Thank goodness for washing machines!)
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We had a wonderful day out at this week at Cardiff International White Water Centre. Indoor surfing was just one of the amazing activities that my daughter took part in, and she loved it!
CIWW is such an exciting, fun and adventurous place to visit in Cardiff.
I have so many more adventures, which I’ll share with you in future posts.
For more information, prices and activities, please contact the friendly staff at : http://www.ciww.com
As I’ve been working a lot of weekends completing Duke of Edinburgh expeditions, this post comes from my daughter who wanted to share a picture and some special words about a recent camping overnight trip my husband and her went on to make the most of a weekend together.
‘My Dad surprised me and told me that we were going to St Davids for a night out camping. I was so surprised as my Mum was working and we went straight away after we dropped her at her centre. The weather was sunny and I was looking forward to going swimming in the sea but with my wet suit of course! I love St Davids, it is one of my favourite places to go. Our campsite is so lovely, its right by the harbour so we can go for a five-minute walk and we are right by the sea. After we had some chips for lunch we put our tent up and then went swimming. We were in the sea for ages and even when it started to rain we stayed in because we were already wet! It was so much fun. On Sunday we hired a sit on top kayak and had a paddle in the sea. It was a bit scary as it was very windy but my Dad did all the steering on the boat. The photo I want to show was the Spider Crab we caught in our lobster pots. My Dad swims out a little into the sea and leaves the pots overnight and this huge crab was what we had the next day! My Dad is a chef so he knows how to cook and clean the crab for us to eat. It was so tasty.
We had so much fun and it was lovely to spend time with my Dad. I can’t wait to go camping more with my Mum in the Summer, we always have tons of fun.’
I loved listening to my daughters adventures when I got home, its lovely to know that even if we can’t be together we still enjoy outdoor adventures and it was great for my daughter to have some wonderful Father and daughter time together too.